Greetings to all my readers (which aren't many!), I would like to talk today about Relationship Dynamics. It is of dire importance that both parties of the relationship be on the same page of their life's book. Two differing standpoints can cause friction, like two tectonic plates rubbing against each other, which in the worst case scenario can result into an earthquake, which everyone knows from knowledge that earthquakes are devastating, and will only leave wreckage in its wake. If you love your woman, then you will listen to her, hear her vocal thoughts, understand her perspective, and appreciate her differences when it comes to something that both of you have disagreed upon. This does not mean that you as a man have the obligation to adhere to this difference, because sometimes those differences can sever the ties that bind that particular relationship. If you take the time to listen, and refrain from talking too much as to overwhelm the dialogue, then you might be able to learn what it is that she aspires for. A woman's dreams should be the place where a man nestles his heart, because if he loves his woman, then he'll make sure that he will take the seeds of her dreams and plant them in fertile soil, water them, care for them, and watch over them as they grow from a seed to a beautiful rose. But, if that rose has already bloomed, and you don't take care to nurture that flower, it will wilt and the petals will fall to the cold ground of divorce and despair. You don't have to be married to someone to go through a divorce. The term can be applied to any relationship that goes south, that slowly decays and dies. It is the responsibility of the man to nurture the dreams of his woman, and to shine his light like the Sun on her planet, because the Sun is the reason why this planet is habitable. She is like the earth, a planet that is far enough from the Sun to not get absorbed and obliterated by its strength and solar intensity, but close enough to harbor life. A true man will make sure that he acknowledges his wife or his love (or both) as a queen and someone to be respected. Behind every strong man is a strong woman, so the man must understand that she is his shield, and he is her sword. If both of you are reading the same chapters of your life's walk together, then you will both become authors of a unifed story, which is a beautiful conception.
I will get more into the woman's perspective on how she should caretake for her man, but that will come in another post.
Thank you for reading my thoughts. More to come soon...
Sincerely,
Stephen Strange
